I live in a rented house with three friends and in the university I have lots of friends. People seem to like me, but I cannot show my feelings even if I like somebody. I think my best friend is too religious and we have arguments about religious
Do you think having relation with a girl could be helpful? I have not yet been with a opposite gender so far.
I must be alone during each day, and I enjoy it, but whatabout others? I have problem with communicating with other people, including girls.Sometimes I hate everybody and I want to leave them for no good reason. When I am with different kinds of people,I do not feel comfortable and I want to be aware of this matter if I am strange and is there any problem with me.
It’s OK to want to be alone from time to time. As long as solitude is a managed part of your life, it is good for you. Many people have to work at enjoying solitude, but your work needs to me in how to create and maintain relationships. If contact makes you uncomfortable, take a little break and explain what you’re doing, then come back to the conversation. You also have no experience with women, which adds to your nervousness.
Over time, you’ll become more comfortable. You need to stretch your limits, and practice getting along with people. If you aren’t so anxious, you’ll have an easier time. The following articles will teach you the skills you need to know.
Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. is a licensed psychotherapist in S. California since 1978 with over 30 years experience in counseling individuals and couples and author of 13 books in 17 languages, including It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction; The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again; Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting About the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage, The Commuter Marriage, and her newest, Love Styles: How to Celebrate Your Differences. She writes the “Dr. Romance” blog, and the “Happiness Tips from Tina” email newsletter.
Dr. Tessina, is CRO (Chief Romance Officer) for LoveForever.com, a website designed to strengthen relationships and guide couples through the various stages of their relationship with personalized tips, courses, and online couples counseling. Online, she’s known as “Dr. Romance” Dr. Tessina appears frequently on radio, and such TV shows as “Oprah”, “Larry King Live” and ABC News.